From Self-Judgement to Self-Compassion

Mindfulness is great. Mostly. But being aware of your thoughts can be downright painful, especially when they’re full of self-judgement. Self-compassion can help.

It’s Not Extra, It’s Essential

Why you should always remember the brine (and just what I mean by that), advice for how to cope when you’re therapist is away, and three great books right now.

37 Reminders

Emotional wellness advice I need to hear on my 37th birthday. Maybe it’ll help you too?

On The Stairs

Pressure on mothers to “be present” or “enjoy the moment” with their kids can induce shame. But a bigger, more compassionate view offers an antidote.

What’s In A Word?

Why responsive is my word of the year, why sadness isn’t as bad as you think, and the three books I can’t stop thinking about this month.

The Cocktail Party in Your Head

Is your brain bursting at the seams with thoughts, not all of them helpful? Applying an old psychological skill in a new way might help you listen to the wisest parts of yourself.