Bad Luck, Good Luck

On locating yourself in a world where luck takes and gives.

Life Happens

On being patient when you’re a patient.

Time on the Rocks

On geologic time, parenting time, and the impossible wish to reinhabit even 42 seconds of either.

​​The Cactus Myth

I celebrated my 40th birthday solo in saguaro country. The iconic cactus isn’t what we think it is. Neither are we.

​​How to Do Exposure Therapy With Your Kid at Home 

Phobias are among the most treatable anxiety conditions. A step-by-step guide to the evidence-based approach that worked for my son. One evening, I walked past the bathroom and caught a strange sight out of the corner of my eye: One of my children, brushing his teeth in the dark, crouched on the floor with hisContinue reading “​​How to Do Exposure Therapy With Your Kid at Home “

On Saying Yes to What Matters

Some yeses are obligatory. Others are worth logging on from a parking lot for.

Refuse To Be Their Agent

On being a stable base when everything feels uncertain — and how to talk to kids about current events.

Finding Light Through Ritual

On small talk, sacred candles, and navigating dark times. Plus a new article and book to read.

Cosmic Intervention

On awe and the northern lights, an article on science of bipolar disorder, and two books to give you perspective.

A Geography of Dependencies

On ancestors, inheritance, and what connects us.